Falling for It


Are we “falling for it”?

Question:
After 2-3 hours “online” (staring at a screen / scrolling mindlessly) how do you feel?

(My) Answer:
Drained!

I frequently think about other (analog/real life) activities I could be doing.
Activities that I feel better doing.
Activities that have been displaced by a screen.
Activities that benefit my mental and physical health. (not suck it dry).

Q. Do we really need a cell in our hand 24/7?

 

Cell phones began as an emergency / light use “tool”.
I know. I was in the cellular industry way back when  the bag phone was a thing!
Today, the phone is literally part of peoples hand.
Do it all on our “app” save time, save money ,” Its convenient “.


“Falling for it”.

Bank accounts, “social” media, food shopping, book reading, audio recording,
Picture taking, stock trading, emailing, text messaging, GPS, Govt disease tracking,
music playing, web searching, online ordering, fast food ordering,
restaurant wait texting, exercise monitoring, car remote control, bill paying,
Entry into events….

Again, this started as as a device that you kept in your glove compartment.
One that you owned-but didn’t own you.
The tables have turned.

Are we “falling for it”?

Today’s modern lifestyle:

Everyone connected, but no ones connecting.
There is so much “getting done” but so little enjoyment.
So much information, so little inspiration.
We unconsciously fill each possible gap between activities,
each moment of downtime with scrolling.

Having your phone with you causes stress.
NOT having your phone with you causes stress.

Are we “falling for it”?

The more things change, the more they stay the same.
(Quote from Henry David Thoreau – from his book Walden c. 1850’s)

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We are in great haste to construct a magnetic telegraph from Maine to Texas; but Maine and Texas, it may be, have nothing important to communicate…
We are eager to tunnel under the Atlantic and bring the old world some weeks nearer to the new; but perchance the first news that will leak through into the broad flapping American ear will be that Princess Adelaide has the whooping cough.”
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That statement came from a man who was at peace. Content with the speed of life.
He was a rare soul who questioned “falling for it”.
He was living out what we want most today.
“Presence”

Are we “falling for it”?

The way I see it….

Thoreau simply could not see any added benefit to squandering  his precious attention…
(his presence) on anything beyond his local area (his community).
Local , tangible community- is a strong yearning of people today as well.
BUT
Today, we are more involved in what others (online) say they are doing
– even if they are thousands of miles away- than we are with our own lives.
Never mind the lives of people all around you (at the store, in line – on the sidewalk
People that don’t really notice you anymore.
Their phone is more important.


How long will we- will YOU choose to live like this?

 

 Welcome to the R3volution!
You  are NOT alone.
-Scott


One response to “Falling for It”

  1. A reader sent me this question by email….
    “Good question! -s !
    What do you propose and how can we get started😊?”
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    I propose AWARENESS.
    Become aware of the digital migration in your life.
    (How tangible activities, even possessions are now “virtual”/
    We can start by becoming aware how we feel when time spent with friends becomes replaced by “Face book”.
    How even a phone call is too “inconvenient” and has migrated to texting. A SUPER shallow replacement.
    To get started, set an intention to the universe to reclaim REAL!
    (as oppressed to virtual).
    For example I choose to purposely go to my bank – and chose to not activate online banking. Because of this I have (literally) made 3 friends at my local bank We just had two of them over for dinner.
    (If I was only online, would not have built relationships…and saved time for what exactly? To be depressed and alone more?
    Life is still about relationships.
    I chose to not “fall for it” (the “convenience” of online banking) and instead – completely”inconvenience” myself to get out of the house and see real people! It FEELS better. Real
    -Scott